Decisions, Decisions for 2009

Is this thing still on? Okay good. Yes, I am still here. And I've been busy with all kinds of work with RAINN, speaking, the screenplay, photography, welcoming little ones into the world...and much much more. But I have four blogs (oops!), three jobs and a wedding to plan, y'all. I need to take a few pots off the stove, and by that, I mean, blogs. So I am going to do some thinking about how to merge a few together so I can update more frequently.
Maybe you can help! There's a reason for the madness - they are separate topics and some should not intersect:
There's repavingwaverly.blogspot (sexual assault and violence intervention updates on my involvement, in the news and keeping an eye on the media), projecthappinesswedding.blogspot (my wedding planning), marniegoodfriendphoto.blogspot (my photo blog), and unsealingjanedoe.blogspot (notes on adoption and my on hold documentary).
Since my photo shoots are sporadic, I'm thinking of moving it to flickr (but concerned about copyright issues) or add a photo of the week? I'd like to motivate myself to shoot more and a blog entry can do it but there's too much bloggity blogging to do - and if there's a big news story - I probably won't get to the photo. Hmph. Unsolved. Unsealing Jane Doe can be updated here and there as the blog notes that the project is on hold as I plan the wedding. I love love my wedding blog as an online scrapbook/inspiration board, and something to look back on (or use for the wedding) but there's nothing to write about every day.
So that's my stories. Thoughts?